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Along Together

Hiding from each other

Goldilocks effect: not too close, not too far, just right

let us present the self as we want to be

I’m thinking about you

No one is listening

we expect more from technology and less from each other

technology appeals to us most where we are most vulnerable

we’re lonely but we’re afraid of intimacy

the illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship

being alone feels like a problem that needs to be solved

i share therefore i am


you end up isolated if you don’t cultivate the capacity for solitude, the ability to be seperate to gather yourself.

if we don’t teach our children to be alone, they will only know how to be lonely.

time to talk.

start thinking of solitude as a good thing make room for it.

conversation talk

we all really need to listen to each other, including to the boring bits.

Finally, love your friends, love your body, love your life.